Overcome Fear By Analyzing Them

“Fear is the world’s number one problem . . . most of our fears are hidden . . . take a constructive and fear­less look at fear . . . you can’t have fear and wealth too.” by Deb George photo by apesara

I’ve been getting a lot of feedback from women in regard to having a fear of failure in their business or lack there of. Hence the following article.It is my belief that fear gives rise to more trouble in the life and business of women than all other causes put collectively. It is my quest here to help women who want to become profitable business owners to help themselves by getting them to confront their hidden fears in three steps. While fear often is the real trouble, the underlying cause and not the problem women have come to talk about, which actually is the emergence or consequence that the hidden, unrecognized fear has produced. Consequently, the first step in overcoming fear is to analyze the problem women art facing in order to expose possible hidden fears.

Whilst these buried fears are found, we handle them in the same way that we handle the open or recognized fears. But most of our fears are hidden. A number of women subconsciously believe that they don’t deserve or are not worthy of success. In their conscious, reasoning mind, they want to be forgiven for some reason or another and want true wealth but require extra motivation as they venture into online success.

Women have a way of going around in a circles, failing to take a step out and up, and so wearing their rut into a deep trench from which they then cannot climb out alone. This often is the result of failing to analyze the problem until the fear is found. Until it is discovered there

is no basis for overcoming fear at all. There is work involved.

It is important to note that not all problems women have with becoming successful arise from fear. Sometimes a prob­lem is the result of laziness, indifference, lack of accurate information or any one of many other causes. Problems of life are normal. Problems, however, can present opportunities for growth. However, some problems present a happy challenge and contain no fear whatsoever.

Here are three simple steps to overcome fear:

1 –Analyze your fears. It is not conceivable to overcome fear until you have uncovered the false belief that gave rise to them in the first place. Pray, meditate, talk it out, write it down; but search deep inside and you will find what you are afraid of. You will never get around the fact that all fear arises from a false belief.

2- Analyze the fear you do find, or already know you have until you uncover the false belief that gave rise to it. Think about why you will this way, what happened to make you feel this way, when you started feeling this way, etc..

3- Find new information. The final step involved is finding the facts which you can accept

and which collectively provide brand-new belief and a new mental attitude toward yourself, your business, your problems and all life for that matter.

Fear is a feeling that we will not get the good we desire, or that something bad is going to happen that we do not want to happen but are powerless to prevent. As soon as we know how to obtain the good, or to prevent the bad from coming about, the fear is translates into promise, which then sets up some form of action -physical, mental or spiritual and generally all three. The more action that takes place the more eminent faith in yourself rises, and the flow of energy will be reversed with the belief. This continues until the problem is resolved. Women can then move along on a plateau until some other situation arises which jeopardizes their good. This will start another circle of fear and inhibits accomplishment and/or success. If you truly want to be successful at what you do you’ll have to learn how to handle it briefly, fully and so repeatedly that overcoming fear becomes an automatic habit for you.

To recap, lets start by analyzing your problems for possible hidden fears. Analyze the fear that you have found, or already know you have until you uncover the false belief that gave rise to it. Then seek and find new information, and/or facts which help you to understand and accept what will set you free from fear.

It is a process of learning the truth which will set you free and help you to overcome your fear and allow you to prosper in business.

Other Resources From The Web:

Overcome Fear To Make Money On The Internet
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Overcome Fear By Analyzing Them
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Overcome Your Worries And Make Money On The Internet
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– People often ask me if there is a magic formula for overcoming the fears that stop them from taking a step forward in their lives. While this isn’t exactly magic, this technique does work every single time. Fear is overcome by action. …

Managing Fear & Anxiety, Overcoming Fright, Panic, Worry
– What is it that you fear, why? What part or parts of the problem is it that is causing you the worry, the anxiety, the fear? Think of what exactly it is you fear, are afraid of. ‘Know your enemy’ to easier mange anxiety, overcome fear. …

Deciphering The Secret…..It’s No Big Mystery

I watched the movie. Did you? If not, you really should. Whether you are rich or poor, single or married, skinny or fat, there’s bound to be something else you desire in life. You can use the law of attraction to get it.Over the course of my life I have heard little snippets of information on this topic of attracting abundance. The law of attraction is not new. I believe it was Oprah who kicked open the marketing doors and led to this mass hysteria of individuals seeking to use their minds to get what the want. However, we were always thinking it. At least I was. Rhonda Byrne stole my idea.

I always knew that there was a force greater than ourselves. I can feel the energy waves jumping off of people I come in contact with (don’t get spooked :).

Didn’t your mom tell you that if you prayed hard enough you that your dreams would come true. Using the law of attraction is very similar to this practice. It’s metaphysics. People have been studying this for years. However, The Secret goes quite a bit deeper into the theory that you can attract what you want. But first you must know what you want and put your mind in a state comparable to how you would feel if you already have what you wanted.

7 Free Lessons fro the Teachers of The Secret

Today, millions of people are reading it. The latest self-help sensation claims we can change our lives by thinking. We can. I challenge you to decide today to get “The Secret”. Get the book. Get the Movie. Get the transcript. Just get the secret and begin implementing.

Don’t think that it is easy. What I found is that it is quite difficult to be conscious at all times. In interviewing my friends and family I’ve learned that some folks like their miserable existence. The are afraid of change. They don’t, and will never, believe that they deserve and abundance of health and wealth. Most people I talk to are unhappy with their jobs, relationships and bank accounts.

I am here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be that way. In my opinion, you should be aware that the The Secret doesn’t really make clear – being poor is a state of mind. I know folks who are dirt poor and they are the richest people I know. While I know others who are making what they feel is a “good salary” who are as miserable and unlucky as they come. What do you think?
Do You Believe

However, if you only believe that you can get that dream job, or score that perfect parter, or drive that fancy car or whatever it is you wish – you can.

I believe you can manifest destiny and I invite you to take a journey with me. Together we will manifest destiny in many ways. From the simple things in life like finding a parking space to the more grandeur like becoming a self-made millionaire, I believe we can. Do You??

WordPress plugin heaven!

This post is for all the php folks (mostly men) working hard out there to develop all the wordpress plugins that I used to build my site 🙂

This post is for all the php folks (mostly men) working hard out there to develop all the wordpress plugins that I used to build my site 🙂

I am not quite sure what inspires you but whatever it is Deb George wants to let you know that you are “priceless.” These folks help to keep a sista’s business in order.

They help to organize, update, analyse and keep fresh your wordpress blog, which is what this site is (a wordpress site). They are also, for the most part, readily available to answer questions, if a sista working from home needs a bit help with getting it to work right. I can’t thank you enough. I can drop a 5 in your paypal account, however, that would not even suffice.

If you haven’t noticed, this site is full of wordpress plugins that help with the functionality of this site. In addition to that, I’ve also learned a thing a two about php code. “How wonderful it feels to be educated.” A special thanks to the following:

* Subcribe to comments
* adsense manager
* dd-formmailer **I really like Matt.
* digitalfingerprint
* searcheverything

*Lucy’sLinkLove
* wordpressqueen **Special thanks to Lorelle (She doesn’t even know me yet:)
* postteaser

* sociable
* sk2
* sharethis

I have a great deal of admiration for the php folks. That php stuff is WICKED complicated. You guys inspire me to keep pressing ahead. If you can use your free time to develop these wordpress plugins and ask only for a nugget in your paypal account, I can certainly use my time to dedicate a post to show my appreciation and gratitude.

KUDO’s to the wordpress plugin folks! You deserve that and much more…

Update: I just found THE most adorable plugin EVER. If you take a look at my archives page you’ll see it in action. It’s a snazzy little plugin that makes your archives page dazzle. You can get it here:

* Snazzy Archives

BIG SHOUT OUT to Vladimir Prelovac for making this wordpress plugin. YOU ROCK DUDE!

Are We Really Ignoring Those Iphone Ads!


Creative Commons License photo credit: petrr

I found a great post @ ReadWriteWeb that talks about women ignoring the ads that pop up all over the Iphone.

My question to you is “Is this true? Do you ignore those advertisements?” I do. IMHO, they are quite annoying.  Most of the applications that I have on my phone consists of some form of annoying ass ads popping up that have no relevance to what I am trying to accomplish.

Perhaps, if they ads on the Iphone were more centered around the application in which we were using, they would get more of us to respond. Anyway, what do you think?

Go read the article at ReadWriteWeb (which is full of fantastic and interesting stuff), think about what you do and get back to me and let me know. Let’s start a conversation about it.